"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What is quality woman to you?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Class.

I'm now at a place where I don't just fcuk for the sake of pussie.

What does she have? A house? A nice car? nice clothes?
What does she do? A good job? can spend a few dollars?
Where does she go? Rather go to a little upscale bar/lounge more than a dive bar?
How does she act? Educated? Traveled? Daring? Calm? has something to talk about?

Basically, a nurtured, well behaved chic.

Where I'm at in life, this is what I look for in quality plates. A girl that matches me.
Think Focus: Will Smith and Margot Robbie
 

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Class.

I'm now at a place where I don't just fcuk for the sake of pussie.

What does she have? A house? A nice car? nice clothes?
What does she do? A good job? can spend a few dollars?
Where does she go? Rather go to a little upscale bar/lounge more than a dive bar?
How does she act? Educated? Traveled? Daring? Calm? has something to talk about?

Basically, a nurtured, well behaved chic.

Where I'm at in life, this is what I look for in quality plates. A girl that matches me.
Think Focus: Will Smith and Margot Robbie
But can these women also turn into evil satans? And are they deep down bitches?
 

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Most vaginas are loose and unsatisfying. I need a woman who is multiorgasmic and clenches when she cvms, which I'd guess is about 10% of women.
 

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Quality is not binary, but rather commensurate with the degree to which a woman acts more toward her higher needs than her lower needs.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Most vaginas are loose and unsatisfying. I need a woman who is multiorgasmic and clenches when she cvms, which I'd guess is about 10% of women.
Most vagina's are SNUG to me and require a couple of minutes to work all myself into...
 

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A quality woman to me is one with the following qualities:

1. Character - she is righteous, doesn't expect handouts and treats people well
2. Self motivated and driven - she can earn her own $$$, has ambitions that she's working towards
3. Charming - she's not "nasty" or "mean", she doesn't have to be because she know what shehas to offer
4. Loyal - If you are her man she will have your back, if you slipped she'd temporarily pick up the slack
5. Sexual - very sexual, still a student as well...
6. Generous - she would buy me gifts and take me on dates, know the things I desire and surprise me.
7. Educated - she's well educated and smart enough to educate herself for a carreer change for examplear
8. Knows how to present herself - she takes care of her body and outer appearance, but that's a small part of the package

That being said most of them are looking for handouts and what we can do for them.
 

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I'm now at a place where I don't just fcuk for the sake of pussie.

What does she have? A house? A nice car? nice clothes?
What does she do? A good job? can spend a few dollars?
Where does she go? Rather go to a little upscale bar/lounge more than a dive bar?
How does she act? Educated? Traveled? Daring? Calm? has something to talk about?

Basically, a nurtured, well behaved chic.

Where I'm at in life, this is what I look for in quality plates. A girl that matches me.
Think Focus: Will Smith and Margot Robbie
Exactly my thoughts.
 

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for me i'd say a quality woman is:

1. nice
2. not a gold digger, nor some sort of man hating feminist, nor a cheater/disloyal or anything else that drags her quality down
3. good looking without needing a metric ton of makeup
4. able to actually have a conversation, sharing hobbies with me is a plus
5. most importantly, is really sexual, i need a girl with a bunch of fetishes who wants to have sex often, open minded is a plus
 

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Educated and/or worldly, loyal, honest, kinky, motivated.

Also she needs a hobby that she dedicates free time to. A legitimate hobby where she's creating something or working for something.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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One that doesn't need an army of orbiters and who's self esteem isn't based off social media likes, followers/friend count, comments, and isn't obsessed with selfies. Has more going for her life with activities like cooking/baking, reading, volunteering, diet/exercising, church, family, hobbies, etc. Preferably doesn't smoke...
 

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But can these women also turn into evil satans? And are they deep down bitches?
YOOOOOOOOOO. Can these quality women also turn into evil satans? Or are they deep down evil satans? Can you ever really trust these quality girls?? And are they deep down bitches? Once a more alpha guy comes will she ditch you for him?!?!?!?!
 

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YOOOOOOOOOO. Can these quality women also turn into evil satans? Or are they deep down evil satans? Can you ever really trust these quality girls?? And are they deep down bitches? Once a more alpha guy comes will she ditch you for him?!?!?!?!
All women can be evil. All men can be evil.
Quality doesn't mean the same as perfect specimen.

Can you trust quality girls? No, you shouldn't trust anyone.
However most quality women might not cheat on you not because you're so awesome but because it's outside their morality clause. Which is even better.

Are they deep down bitches?
Being a beech is a flip switch every woman has. Just like being an Alpha is a switch every man has.
A quality chic however might just move on from you if all you do is bring the frustrating beech out of her. However bringing out the sexual beech is a different situation.

Will she ditch you for another alpha?
Who cares.
Quality chics are not as dikc hungry as your regular women, hence why they're quality.
You however have to know that even if she does go with a different guy, you can always do better.
Would she leave? probably not as quality women seek commitment, exclusivity with one person and they usually plan the future with you once they like you.
This is the major reason why most quality women you'll meet are already wifed up.

There's levels to this sheet.
 

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YOOOOOOOOOO. Can these quality women also turn into evil satans? Or are they deep down evil satans? Can you ever really trust these quality girls?? And are they deep down bitches? Once a more alpha guy comes will she ditch you for him?!?!?!?!
All of them don't monkey branch. But the "hot girl" that's in the game all ways does
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The wife of noble character. Nothing lazy, entitled or vulgar about her. She is an asset to her husband in every way. It's a great passage, still current today.
 

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I dont get it. How can they be quality if they deep down are just the opposite of it??

Every woman can turn inti a bytch, every woman can betray you... What the fvck? They cant possibly be quality..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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