"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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amoka

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Fellas, I'll keep this one brief. I met this girl at the bar last saturday and I got number close. I waited till tuesday and called her around 9:30pm. She did not pick-up but I got her answering machine. The name on the answering machine is not the name that she provided me. Anyway, I refused to leave her a messge. My question is should I call her back? If so, when is the appropriate time to call back? Also, should I pick-up in case she calls?

--Amoka
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Rollo Tomassi

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Heheh,...I don't suppose she was a stripper?

:D
 

Vulpine

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Did you meet her in Vegas?

Maybe it's her roommates answering machine.

Leave a message, wuss, what's going to happen? Nothing if you don't leave a message. Heck, you might even get the girl's who's phone it is call back and you can game her instead... watch, she'll be even hotter than the chick you were trying to call. Stranger things have happened.
 

amoka

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Heheh,...I don't suppose she was a stripper?

:D
I can not confirm nor deny such assessment about her. I barely know her. Nobody has answered the question yet? Should I call her back and if she does not pick up, should I leave a message or just forget about her entirely.
 

Vulpine

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Brain calling eyes, come in eyes.

These are Amoka's eyes, go ahead, over.

Eyes, read Vulpine's post, I repeat, read Vulpine's post, over.

Uh.... roger that, Brain, out.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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