"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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amoka

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Fellas, I'll keep this one brief. I met this girl at the bar last saturday and I got number close. I waited till tuesday and called her around 9:30pm. She did not pick-up but I got her answering machine. The name on the answering machine is not the name that she provided me. Anyway, I refused to leave her a messge. My question is should I call her back? If so, when is the appropriate time to call back? Also, should I pick-up in case she calls?

--Amoka
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Rollo Tomassi

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Heheh,...I don't suppose she was a stripper?

:D
 
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Did you meet her in Vegas?

Maybe it's her roommates answering machine.

Leave a message, wuss, what's going to happen? Nothing if you don't leave a message. Heck, you might even get the girl's who's phone it is call back and you can game her instead... watch, she'll be even hotter than the chick you were trying to call. Stranger things have happened.
 
amoka

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Heheh,...I don't suppose she was a stripper?

:D
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I can not confirm nor deny such assessment about her. I barely know her. Nobody has answered the question yet? Should I call her back and if she does not pick up, should I leave a message or just forget about her entirely.
 
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Brain calling eyes, come in eyes.

These are Amoka's eyes, go ahead, over.

Eyes, read Vulpine's post, I repeat, read Vulpine's post, over.

Uh.... roger that, Brain, out.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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