"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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amoka

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Fellas, I'll keep this one brief. I met this girl at the bar last saturday and I got number close. I waited till tuesday and called her around 9:30pm. She did not pick-up but I got her answering machine. The name on the answering machine is not the name that she provided me. Anyway, I refused to leave her a messge. My question is should I call her back? If so, when is the appropriate time to call back? Also, should I pick-up in case she calls?

--Amoka
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Rollo Tomassi

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Heheh,...I don't suppose she was a stripper?

:D
 

Vulpine

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Did you meet her in Vegas?

Maybe it's her roommates answering machine.

Leave a message, wuss, what's going to happen? Nothing if you don't leave a message. Heck, you might even get the girl's who's phone it is call back and you can game her instead... watch, she'll be even hotter than the chick you were trying to call. Stranger things have happened.
 

amoka

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Heheh,...I don't suppose she was a stripper?

:D
I can not confirm nor deny such assessment about her. I barely know her. Nobody has answered the question yet? Should I call her back and if she does not pick up, should I leave a message or just forget about her entirely.
 

Vulpine

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Brain calling eyes, come in eyes.

These are Amoka's eyes, go ahead, over.

Eyes, read Vulpine's post, I repeat, read Vulpine's post, over.

Uh.... roger that, Brain, out.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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