What is love ?

[JohnyTheArrow]

See it yourself

http://www.demilked.com/heartwarming-illustrations-art-sweet-love-couple-puuung/


Anka B • 2 days ago
I loved those pictures! It clearly shows that love doesn't have to look like Hollywood movie to be a fairy tale! <3 :cheer:

 

[Stugots26]

Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more... :crackup:

Sorry, had to...

 

[Pause]

Not sure if you're looking for an answer, but I'll just leave this here. I have learned a lot in the last 10 years. And one of those things was the true definition of love. Love anymore by society's terms is "Lust". True love as our souls yearn for is a reciprocated investment in the betterment of each other. Thus "If you love something let it go, if it comes back it was meant to be."

And that's where the concept of unbreakable love comes from. If your girl has your back so tightly that her main goal in life is to see you grow and become better, there's no way in hades she'll be sneaking bs around behind your back. If she is, well, then it's not true love by that definition anymore, is it?

@stugots: Kudos! haha

 

[JohnyTheArrow]

I love love but it isnt that simple.What is expected often - a sacrifice from a male side including life but it rarerly comes from the female side.The are endless stories about men sacrificing everything for female even life - but there is very little stories about females doing same.Man had more value before, now , until he rich,famous,beautiful he is so totally disposable.Over thrirty single mom, if she is still attractive, can go online and she will have hundrends men fighting for her.There is no reason for female to give you 'love' when you have so many people fighting for you and willing to replace your mate.Thats why love has been replaced by lust.There is no time for love.

Love doesn't exists until it is tested in extreme situations.If your love isnt tested - you shouldnt considered you are being loved.

 

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My point exactly...I had to learn it the hard way.. the way you described and unfortunately 99% of us will have to as well. At least it seems to be reciprocated in those drawings.

 

[RangerMIke]

Love is nothing more than the release of oxytocin. There is nothing magical about it. As long as you as a man can continue to get her to release oxytocin then she will stay with you.

Evolution created oxytocin to over ride our natural instinct of self preservation. Animals that didn't develop "love" connections with familiy or clans died off.

 

[SgtSplacker]

Not sure if you're looking for an answer, but I'll just leave this here. I have learned a lot in the last 10 years. And one of those things was the true definition of love. Love anymore by society's terms is "Lust". True love as our souls yearn for is a reciprocated investment in the betterment of each other. Thus "If you love something let it go, if it comes back it was meant to be."

And that's where the concept of unbreakable love comes from. If your girl has your back so tightly that her main goal in life is to see you grow and become better, there's no way in hades she'll be sneaking bs around behind your back. If she is, well, then it's not true love by that definition anymore, is it?

@stugots: Kudos! haha

Does this even really exist anymore? Love to me is more like a family of wolves sharing a den together. Maybe a moments peace between the fighting for a scrap of flesh from yesterdays meal can be enjoyed at most. Never been in a relationship where I have not had to fight to be considered and respected.