"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What is it YOU want exactly DJ's?

nan3109

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From reading all the posts and being here awhile I've come to the conclusion that most of you aren't getting laid because your trying to be the girl's friend before you do stuff with her (or laid) or you play so many games that you never get laid.

Getting laid is easy, it's salesmen skills. There is an opening, a connection, a phone number or room number along with a meeting, then you hang out and get the 'sale.'

You just have to operate smoothly, be laid back, not give a ****, and make the first move while being entertaing and interesting enough to hold your 'customers' interest in you.

You must also recognize low interest and when to give up on a sale and find a new buyer.

It's sales, simple.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Yes to "Sales Presentation when you're trying to be friends" but that's only for the FEMALE SIDE. But all of you are WRONG on guys doing the sell. Why do girls put on makeup, put on sexy clothes, shoes. THEY ARE SELLING THEMSELVES.

So nope to the above posters who say it's a Man's job to "sales present" - Ever notice that girls who are interested in you will try to be your friend (She shows concern, is curious about you.)

The AFC attempts to have a relationship with a girl by "trying to be friends with her" he asks about her, he wants to know what's up in her life, etc. That's just nice.

MEN ARE BUYERS. GET IT?
 

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Originally posted by SIXPAKGQ
when you are trying to be friends with her first, thats the sales presentation

you still don't get it do you?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I don't see any sales translation here at all.

I agree that men are not sellers we are buyers. If I want something I get it not the other way around.
 
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