Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What is it YOU want exactly DJ's?

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From reading all the posts and being here awhile I've come to the conclusion that most of you aren't getting laid because your trying to be the girl's friend before you do stuff with her (or laid) or you play so many games that you never get laid.

Getting laid is easy, it's salesmen skills. There is an opening, a connection, a phone number or room number along with a meeting, then you hang out and get the 'sale.'

You just have to operate smoothly, be laid back, not give a ****, and make the first move while being entertaing and interesting enough to hold your 'customers' interest in you.

You must also recognize low interest and when to give up on a sale and find a new buyer.

It's sales, simple.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yes to "Sales Presentation when you're trying to be friends" but that's only for the FEMALE SIDE. But all of you are WRONG on guys doing the sell. Why do girls put on makeup, put on sexy clothes, shoes. THEY ARE SELLING THEMSELVES.

So nope to the above posters who say it's a Man's job to "sales present" - Ever notice that girls who are interested in you will try to be your friend (She shows concern, is curious about you.)

The AFC attempts to have a relationship with a girl by "trying to be friends with her" he asks about her, he wants to know what's up in her life, etc. That's just nice.

MEN ARE BUYERS. GET IT?
 
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Originally posted by SIXPAKGQ
when you are trying to be friends with her first, thats the sales presentation
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you still don't get it do you?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I don't see any sales translation here at all.

I agree that men are not sellers we are buyers. If I want something I get it not the other way around.
 
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