"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What is, in your opinion, a high quality woman?

the_govner

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The reason I ask is because I've been reading a lot of the bible articles and many mention this "high quality woman". For example:

*Set your standards high and you will attract "high quality women"*

*Chase your dreams, not women, and you will attract "high quality women"*

(not exact quotes, just the basic idea)

Moreover, after reading "The Truth about women" thread, even with a grain of salt, I'm beginning to believe that all women, in the end, are the same. And looking for this "high quality woman" (apologies for going dr. evil on you), somehow traps one into placing a particular woman in a pedestal and thus leading to "Oneitis".

Your thoughts?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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- A woman who has an extream high interest in me ( most important)

- Charismatic + Confident +Smart.

- Are social but don`t talk to much.

- Has a lots of money
 

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the_govner said:
The reason I ask is because I've been reading a lot of the bible articles and many mention this "high quality woman". For example:

*Set your standards high and you will attract "high quality women"*

*Chase your dreams, not women, and you will attract "high quality women"*

(not exact quotes, just the basic idea)

Moreover, after reading "The Truth about women" thread, even with a grain of salt, I'm beginning to believe that all women, in the end, are the same. And looking for this "high quality woman" (apologies for going dr. evil on you), somehow traps one into placing a particular woman in a pedestal and thus leading to "Oneitis".

Your thoughts?

BUMP, I need to know what you guys think.
 

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A high quality woman is any woman with the qualities that you find to be of value in a mate. These qualities tend to be:

Looks, Body, Social Standing, Common interests, sexual tastes, relationship roles (submisiveness etc.) and similiar philosophical beliefs amongst others.

Basically, govner, YOU decide what is a high quality woman for YOU
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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Rex Man said:
A high quality woman is any woman with the qualities that you find to be of value in a mate. These qualities tend to be:

Looks, Body, Social Standing, Common interests, sexual tastes, relationship roles (submisiveness etc.) and similiar philosophical beliefs amongst others.

Basically, govner, YOU decide what is a high quality woman for YOU
helllo.. took the words out of my mouth :up:
 

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Can anyone discuss "the truth about women" post with regard to my query? Does any woman really stand out?
 

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the_govner said:
Can anyone discuss "the truth about women" post with regard to my query? Does any woman really stand out?
What do you mean by high quality?

It's really what you desire, not what anyone else desires.

Are you talking about the truth as in all women are sluts?
 
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