Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What is, in your opinion, a high quality woman?

the_govner

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The reason I ask is because I've been reading a lot of the bible articles and many mention this "high quality woman". For example:

*Set your standards high and you will attract "high quality women"*

*Chase your dreams, not women, and you will attract "high quality women"*

(not exact quotes, just the basic idea)

Moreover, after reading "The Truth about women" thread, even with a grain of salt, I'm beginning to believe that all women, in the end, are the same. And looking for this "high quality woman" (apologies for going dr. evil on you), somehow traps one into placing a particular woman in a pedestal and thus leading to "Oneitis".

Your thoughts?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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- A woman who has an extream high interest in me ( most important)

- Charismatic + Confident +Smart.

- Are social but don`t talk to much.

- Has a lots of money
 

the_govner

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the_govner said:
The reason I ask is because I've been reading a lot of the bible articles and many mention this "high quality woman". For example:

*Set your standards high and you will attract "high quality women"*

*Chase your dreams, not women, and you will attract "high quality women"*

(not exact quotes, just the basic idea)

Moreover, after reading "The Truth about women" thread, even with a grain of salt, I'm beginning to believe that all women, in the end, are the same. And looking for this "high quality woman" (apologies for going dr. evil on you), somehow traps one into placing a particular woman in a pedestal and thus leading to "Oneitis".

Your thoughts?

BUMP, I need to know what you guys think.
 

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A high quality woman is any woman with the qualities that you find to be of value in a mate. These qualities tend to be:

Looks, Body, Social Standing, Common interests, sexual tastes, relationship roles (submisiveness etc.) and similiar philosophical beliefs amongst others.

Basically, govner, YOU decide what is a high quality woman for YOU
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rex Man said:
A high quality woman is any woman with the qualities that you find to be of value in a mate. These qualities tend to be:

Looks, Body, Social Standing, Common interests, sexual tastes, relationship roles (submisiveness etc.) and similiar philosophical beliefs amongst others.

Basically, govner, YOU decide what is a high quality woman for YOU
helllo.. took the words out of my mouth :up:
 

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Can anyone discuss "the truth about women" post with regard to my query? Does any woman really stand out?
 

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the_govner said:
Can anyone discuss "the truth about women" post with regard to my query? Does any woman really stand out?
What do you mean by high quality?

It's really what you desire, not what anyone else desires.

Are you talking about the truth as in all women are sluts?
 
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