"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What is, in your opinion, a high quality woman?

the_govner

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The reason I ask is because I've been reading a lot of the bible articles and many mention this "high quality woman". For example:

*Set your standards high and you will attract "high quality women"*

*Chase your dreams, not women, and you will attract "high quality women"*

(not exact quotes, just the basic idea)

Moreover, after reading "The Truth about women" thread, even with a grain of salt, I'm beginning to believe that all women, in the end, are the same. And looking for this "high quality woman" (apologies for going dr. evil on you), somehow traps one into placing a particular woman in a pedestal and thus leading to "Oneitis".

Your thoughts?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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- A woman who has an extream high interest in me ( most important)

- Charismatic + Confident +Smart.

- Are social but don`t talk to much.

- Has a lots of money
 

the_govner

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the_govner said:
The reason I ask is because I've been reading a lot of the bible articles and many mention this "high quality woman". For example:

*Set your standards high and you will attract "high quality women"*

*Chase your dreams, not women, and you will attract "high quality women"*

(not exact quotes, just the basic idea)

Moreover, after reading "The Truth about women" thread, even with a grain of salt, I'm beginning to believe that all women, in the end, are the same. And looking for this "high quality woman" (apologies for going dr. evil on you), somehow traps one into placing a particular woman in a pedestal and thus leading to "Oneitis".

Your thoughts?

BUMP, I need to know what you guys think.
 

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A high quality woman is any woman with the qualities that you find to be of value in a mate. These qualities tend to be:

Looks, Body, Social Standing, Common interests, sexual tastes, relationship roles (submisiveness etc.) and similiar philosophical beliefs amongst others.

Basically, govner, YOU decide what is a high quality woman for YOU
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rex Man said:
A high quality woman is any woman with the qualities that you find to be of value in a mate. These qualities tend to be:

Looks, Body, Social Standing, Common interests, sexual tastes, relationship roles (submisiveness etc.) and similiar philosophical beliefs amongst others.

Basically, govner, YOU decide what is a high quality woman for YOU
helllo.. took the words out of my mouth :up:
 

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Can anyone discuss "the truth about women" post with regard to my query? Does any woman really stand out?
 

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the_govner said:
Can anyone discuss "the truth about women" post with regard to my query? Does any woman really stand out?
What do you mean by high quality?

It's really what you desire, not what anyone else desires.

Are you talking about the truth as in all women are sluts?
 
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