"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What is good sex?

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I have had no problems attracting females, but i have never been motivated by sex. I have slept with several women and i didn't get any gratification, they sort of just laid there like a dead fish.

What exactly is good sex? How do you become good at sex? What makes a female good at sex?

This question may seem a bit ridiculous, but one of my new years resolutions was to experience great sex!!!!!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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it's all about connection, which you probably did not have with the other girls.
with that being said, you get better at it, the more you experience, but if you want really good intense sex, you must have a connection.
 
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Please, some guy opinions! I hate being trolled by the ugly chics that post here!!!!!
 
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LOL, Penkitten is cool (and married) but anyway from my guy perspective I agree with Mac.

You just need to find a wh0re and some slvts to plow and maybe both at the same time.

You need a freak son!

Oh yeah and other than knocking it out with the more shady women in the world like this if you find another dead fish type you are trying to have a long term relationship with you're just going to have to train her on what to do to be good at this and she'll be totally receptive so long as you've gotten her into you and obsessively in love with you enough.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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haha, i hate female opinions on relationships, dating, and sex! I mix it up and get the girl off, but i am never personally satisfied. I need to start going to the bars or something, because i am so tired of having boring sex!
 
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penkitten said:
it's all about connection, which you probably did not have with the other girls.
with that being said, you get better at it, the more you experience, but if you want really good intense sex, you must have a connection.
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I agree with that statement. I know before my girlfriend was pretty quiet during sex. Now that there is a deep connection with the two of us she is a sexual demon. You know it is good when the entire first floor is sitting out in front of your dorm because they hear the two of you.
KontrollerX said:
Oh yeah and other than knocking it out with the more shady women in the world like this if you find another dead fish type you are trying to have a long term relationship with you're just going to have to train her on what to do to be good at this and she'll be totally receptive so long as you've gotten her into you and obsessively in love with you enough.
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HAHAHA!!! I did that to my current girlfriend.

She used to just lay there and not move, but now she is friggen amazing in bed. We will have sex for a couple hours a night when we can (she wearies me out before I get wearied out).

comic_relief

P.S. as to the Sir Chance's Advanced Techniques, they work wonders and I have been my girlfriends best partners she has ever had (although it is only three including me)
 
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Good sex can be from hors... Or you are sleeping with girls who don't know what they are doing. Sometimes girls are shy and insecure. So, you need to start talking dirty while having sex to get them to unleash their wild side..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Good sex can be from hors... Or you are sleeping with girls who don't know what they are doing. Sometimes girls are shy and insecure. So, you need to start talking dirty while having sex to get them to unleash their wild side..
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damn straight!

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chevelle said:
I have had no problems attracting females, but i have never been motivated by sex. I have slept with several women and i didn't get any gratification, they sort of just laid there like a dead fish.

What exactly is good sex?
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How old were the women? Were they experienced?
 
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Good sex is sex that's good for you! For me good sex means sex that I can remember the events in question with such vivid detail and excitment that I get shivers or start to zone out bit...kinda like a black out.
 
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