"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What is good sex?

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I have had no problems attracting females, but i have never been motivated by sex. I have slept with several women and i didn't get any gratification, they sort of just laid there like a dead fish.

What exactly is good sex? How do you become good at sex? What makes a female good at sex?

This question may seem a bit ridiculous, but one of my new years resolutions was to experience great sex!!!!!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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it's all about connection, which you probably did not have with the other girls.
with that being said, you get better at it, the more you experience, but if you want really good intense sex, you must have a connection.
 
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Please, some guy opinions! I hate being trolled by the ugly chics that post here!!!!!
 
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LOL, Penkitten is cool (and married) but anyway from my guy perspective I agree with Mac.

You just need to find a wh0re and some slvts to plow and maybe both at the same time.

You need a freak son!

Oh yeah and other than knocking it out with the more shady women in the world like this if you find another dead fish type you are trying to have a long term relationship with you're just going to have to train her on what to do to be good at this and she'll be totally receptive so long as you've gotten her into you and obsessively in love with you enough.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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haha, i hate female opinions on relationships, dating, and sex! I mix it up and get the girl off, but i am never personally satisfied. I need to start going to the bars or something, because i am so tired of having boring sex!
 
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penkitten said:
it's all about connection, which you probably did not have with the other girls.
with that being said, you get better at it, the more you experience, but if you want really good intense sex, you must have a connection.
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I agree with that statement. I know before my girlfriend was pretty quiet during sex. Now that there is a deep connection with the two of us she is a sexual demon. You know it is good when the entire first floor is sitting out in front of your dorm because they hear the two of you.
KontrollerX said:
Oh yeah and other than knocking it out with the more shady women in the world like this if you find another dead fish type you are trying to have a long term relationship with you're just going to have to train her on what to do to be good at this and she'll be totally receptive so long as you've gotten her into you and obsessively in love with you enough.
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HAHAHA!!! I did that to my current girlfriend.

She used to just lay there and not move, but now she is friggen amazing in bed. We will have sex for a couple hours a night when we can (she wearies me out before I get wearied out).

comic_relief

P.S. as to the Sir Chance's Advanced Techniques, they work wonders and I have been my girlfriends best partners she has ever had (although it is only three including me)
 
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Good sex can be from hors... Or you are sleeping with girls who don't know what they are doing. Sometimes girls are shy and insecure. So, you need to start talking dirty while having sex to get them to unleash their wild side..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Good sex can be from hors... Or you are sleeping with girls who don't know what they are doing. Sometimes girls are shy and insecure. So, you need to start talking dirty while having sex to get them to unleash their wild side..
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damn straight!

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chevelle said:
I have had no problems attracting females, but i have never been motivated by sex. I have slept with several women and i didn't get any gratification, they sort of just laid there like a dead fish.

What exactly is good sex?
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How old were the women? Were they experienced?
 
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Good sex is sex that's good for you! For me good sex means sex that I can remember the events in question with such vivid detail and excitment that I get shivers or start to zone out bit...kinda like a black out.
 
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