Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What is good sex?

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I have had no problems attracting females, but i have never been motivated by sex. I have slept with several women and i didn't get any gratification, they sort of just laid there like a dead fish.

What exactly is good sex? How do you become good at sex? What makes a female good at sex?

This question may seem a bit ridiculous, but one of my new years resolutions was to experience great sex!!!!!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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it's all about connection, which you probably did not have with the other girls.
with that being said, you get better at it, the more you experience, but if you want really good intense sex, you must have a connection.
 
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Please, some guy opinions! I hate being trolled by the ugly chics that post here!!!!!
 
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LOL, Penkitten is cool (and married) but anyway from my guy perspective I agree with Mac.

You just need to find a wh0re and some slvts to plow and maybe both at the same time.

You need a freak son!

Oh yeah and other than knocking it out with the more shady women in the world like this if you find another dead fish type you are trying to have a long term relationship with you're just going to have to train her on what to do to be good at this and she'll be totally receptive so long as you've gotten her into you and obsessively in love with you enough.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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haha, i hate female opinions on relationships, dating, and sex! I mix it up and get the girl off, but i am never personally satisfied. I need to start going to the bars or something, because i am so tired of having boring sex!
 
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penkitten said:
it's all about connection, which you probably did not have with the other girls.
with that being said, you get better at it, the more you experience, but if you want really good intense sex, you must have a connection.
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I agree with that statement. I know before my girlfriend was pretty quiet during sex. Now that there is a deep connection with the two of us she is a sexual demon. You know it is good when the entire first floor is sitting out in front of your dorm because they hear the two of you.
KontrollerX said:
Oh yeah and other than knocking it out with the more shady women in the world like this if you find another dead fish type you are trying to have a long term relationship with you're just going to have to train her on what to do to be good at this and she'll be totally receptive so long as you've gotten her into you and obsessively in love with you enough.
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HAHAHA!!! I did that to my current girlfriend.

She used to just lay there and not move, but now she is friggen amazing in bed. We will have sex for a couple hours a night when we can (she wearies me out before I get wearied out).

comic_relief

P.S. as to the Sir Chance's Advanced Techniques, they work wonders and I have been my girlfriends best partners she has ever had (although it is only three including me)
 
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Good sex can be from hors... Or you are sleeping with girls who don't know what they are doing. Sometimes girls are shy and insecure. So, you need to start talking dirty while having sex to get them to unleash their wild side..
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Good sex can be from hors... Or you are sleeping with girls who don't know what they are doing. Sometimes girls are shy and insecure. So, you need to start talking dirty while having sex to get them to unleash their wild side..
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damn straight!

comic_relief
 
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chevelle said:
I have had no problems attracting females, but i have never been motivated by sex. I have slept with several women and i didn't get any gratification, they sort of just laid there like a dead fish.

What exactly is good sex?
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How old were the women? Were they experienced?
 
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Good sex is sex that's good for you! For me good sex means sex that I can remember the events in question with such vivid detail and excitment that I get shivers or start to zone out bit...kinda like a black out.
 
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