zekko
Master Don Juan
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In the early days of "game", and maybe it's still the case, I don't know - there were all these steps. Start with this step, then move to the next step, and IF she does this, THEN you do that, and IF this happens THEN you move to that stage, and all this stuff. Thing is, I could never relate to people while doing all that stuff. I can't be "in my head" when I talk to people (including girls), and I would have to be in my head to keep track of all those steps. Maybe it's like being too stupid to walk and chew bubble gum at the same time, but that's the way I am.''applied charisma'' was a definition I heard a long time back
But over the years i've kind of cared less and less about 'game' though and decided it's really somewhat irrelevant (and I studied and tested everything! from mystery to DiCarlo to yareally to NLP and everything in between lol!)
By that I mean, if a girl is attracted to you, the amount of 'game' you need to get her in bed is more or less 'don't be a COMPLETE autist'. It's honestly quite hard to screw it up with a girl is attracted to you as long as you are even remotely normal.
I mean there are certain basic principles I keep in mind when dealing with girls, but they're all fairly obvious, and I learned those lessons mostly on my own, by screwing up badly. So they're very ingrained. But I don't have to think about them, I just do them, they're just a natural part of me now.