"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What is everyone's opinion on dating single moms?

MedDude

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Just trying to get everyone's opinions/experiences on this.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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RecoveringAFC

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My rule is don't.

For that matter:
- Don't date single moms
- Don't date people who are financially in a different space than you
- Don't date people in a different place in life than you
- Don't date people who are a different religion (and care about it)
- Don't date crazy
- Don't date an ex
 

Greasy Pig

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This has been covered extensively in an earlier thread a few months ago but I have banged a few single mums for a few weeks at a time, never anything serious though.
I think you just have to remember that her kids are her No.1 priority (well I hope so).
So while you're sniffing around trying to pound that puzzy, really, you are No.2 and always will be.
If you can handle that, go for it but don't be pi$$ed off when she keeps ditching you because she can't find a sitter or because she has to get up early to take the kids to soccer practice.

EDIT: Lol, I basically just repeated Danger's advice but I didn't see it before I posted. Good sh!t, Danger.
 

SecondHalf

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MedDude said:
Just trying to get everyone's opinions/experiences on this.
I'm on the opposite side of the fence here.
I'll only date single moms.
I'm a full time single dad, the women I've dated with no kids in the last couple years are problematic.

Also, I find they are a tad hungrier, have no interest in more Children and there is no rush to get the relationship real serious (most of them anyway).

SH
 

Maximummax

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Danger said:
I have dated several single mothers....but really just for the sex.

The biggest problem is that you will always be number 2 to the child. Never any exceptions.

The next biggest problem is that her ex will always be in the picture as well.

For the two reasons above, I avoid any kind of relationship with them.

Great answer

I will add one more point, If you are good with women/girls you can handle her easily with out getting attached to her.

If you are not much experienced girls in general, stay away from single mom's. they are pain in the ass.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If you date single moms you are the lowest form of male life, you exist right beside the guys who feel lucky to date 300 lb warpigs... I am ashamed and disgusted that someone with DJ skills would even consider this.

Its like getting a degree in nuclear physics to go and beg on the street and root through trash bins.
 

speed dawg

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If you're a single dad and in a similar place, then go for it. If you're single, I say go for single women.

I fvcked alot of single moms when I was single, but I wouldn't seriously date any of them since I was just in a different place. But there again, at that point I was just in it for the hors and easy pvssy.
 

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If you are past 35 and especially 40, most of the women in your age range are going to have kids if only to have one before their egg sacs dry out.

The good thing about older women with kids are that they usually don't require special mommy time anymore. In my age group, their kids better have a drivers license and ready to move out.

Any chick under the age of 30 with kids should be off limits for any other purposes than sex.
 

ilikecharlene

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Hmm... only for sex as has been said.

Dating? hell no. I don't want to raise another man's child. It may be unPC to say, but single mothers are near the bottom of dating desirability.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Only f**k them.

These days, they've got entitlement issues out the ass.

They got the seed from an alpha, now want the beta to provide/ raise said seed.

Case closed.
 

Maximummax

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nismo-4 said:
Only f**k them.

These days, they've got entitlement issues out the ass.

They got the seed from an alpha, now want the beta to provide/ raise said seed.

Case closed.

Awesome Answer Again Nismo :D
 
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