Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What is cheating? draw the line.

What is crossing the line?

  • Talking to another man is cheating.

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Dancing with another man is cheating.

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • If he takes her out on a date, its cheating.

    Votes: 11 61.1%
  • If she kisses him, it's cheating.

    Votes: 7 38.9%
  • Oral sex constitutes cheating.

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • If she fvcks him, it's cheating.

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    18

superchristx

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Where do you draw the line, and decide its time to next?

I saw a post earlier today "OMG, my girl is going to lunch w/ another dude!" now personally this wouldn't bother me. I've been in exclusive relationships, and if the girl goes out with other guys and I get a night off, that's great.

I learned from sites like this one that spending $ is not the way to a woman's heart, so I don't feel threatened when something like this happens. I keep my relationships sexually exclusive (as far as she knows), but we aren't bound at the hip. Anyway whe
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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frivolousz21

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dancing with touching, unless its a slow dance with another man because I couldnt be there is cheating.


talking or having male friends u knew before me isnt.


on that note...buyer beware..if ur girl has a lot of male friends.....id personally not want that.


I and most guys I know dont want female friends...YES REAL FRIENDS!....
so we know she doesnt NEED them either if she has u.
 

Skel

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Anything a person needs to lie about is cheating.
 

Bobbles

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I think if she is dancing just holding hands with her prior male friends that is ok. If she is slow dancing even with her prior male friends that is not ok. Dancing 1 on 1 with anyone she doesn't know is not ok.
 

MightyMate

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Cheating is after a date. If she went on date its a cheat. You cant date anybody else than Your partner. Thats simple. About dancing it depends. Its not cheating if she didn it once, and You said not to. But since that if it happends its a cheat. Also depends on kind of dance. For sure none of my girls is allowed to dance with naybody. But.. Some people let their woman dance with friends. Well im not that kind of man. My wman is fully mine.
But..
When i want to **** a girl that has boyfriend. I tell her.... WITHOUT KISSING IN LIPS ITS NOT A CHEAT.
funny thing. they alays do ******* and have sex in few minutes.
I should add it to tips section. And to bible. Its mad stuff.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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