"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What is cheating? draw the line.

What is crossing the line?

  • Talking to another man is cheating.

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Dancing with another man is cheating.

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • If he takes her out on a date, its cheating.

    Votes: 11 61.1%
  • If she kisses him, it's cheating.

    Votes: 7 38.9%
  • Oral sex constitutes cheating.

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • If she fvcks him, it's cheating.

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    18

superchristx

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Where do you draw the line, and decide its time to next?

I saw a post earlier today "OMG, my girl is going to lunch w/ another dude!" now personally this wouldn't bother me. I've been in exclusive relationships, and if the girl goes out with other guys and I get a night off, that's great.

I learned from sites like this one that spending $ is not the way to a woman's heart, so I don't feel threatened when something like this happens. I keep my relationships sexually exclusive (as far as she knows), but we aren't bound at the hip. Anyway whe
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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frivolousz21

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dancing with touching, unless its a slow dance with another man because I couldnt be there is cheating.


talking or having male friends u knew before me isnt.


on that note...buyer beware..if ur girl has a lot of male friends.....id personally not want that.


I and most guys I know dont want female friends...YES REAL FRIENDS!....
so we know she doesnt NEED them either if she has u.
 

Skel

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Anything a person needs to lie about is cheating.
 

Bobbles

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I think if she is dancing just holding hands with her prior male friends that is ok. If she is slow dancing even with her prior male friends that is not ok. Dancing 1 on 1 with anyone she doesn't know is not ok.
 

MightyMate

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Cheating is after a date. If she went on date its a cheat. You cant date anybody else than Your partner. Thats simple. About dancing it depends. Its not cheating if she didn it once, and You said not to. But since that if it happends its a cheat. Also depends on kind of dance. For sure none of my girls is allowed to dance with naybody. But.. Some people let their woman dance with friends. Well im not that kind of man. My wman is fully mine.
But..
When i want to **** a girl that has boyfriend. I tell her.... WITHOUT KISSING IN LIPS ITS NOT A CHEAT.
funny thing. they alays do ******* and have sex in few minutes.
I should add it to tips section. And to bible. Its mad stuff.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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