"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What is cheating? draw the line.

What is crossing the line?

  • Talking to another man is cheating.

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Dancing with another man is cheating.

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • If he takes her out on a date, its cheating.

    Votes: 11 61.1%
  • If she kisses him, it's cheating.

    Votes: 7 38.9%
  • Oral sex constitutes cheating.

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • If she fvcks him, it's cheating.

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    18

superchristx

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Where do you draw the line, and decide its time to next?

I saw a post earlier today "OMG, my girl is going to lunch w/ another dude!" now personally this wouldn't bother me. I've been in exclusive relationships, and if the girl goes out with other guys and I get a night off, that's great.

I learned from sites like this one that spending $ is not the way to a woman's heart, so I don't feel threatened when something like this happens. I keep my relationships sexually exclusive (as far as she knows), but we aren't bound at the hip. Anyway whe
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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frivolousz21

Master Don Juan
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dancing with touching, unless its a slow dance with another man because I couldnt be there is cheating.


talking or having male friends u knew before me isnt.


on that note...buyer beware..if ur girl has a lot of male friends.....id personally not want that.


I and most guys I know dont want female friends...YES REAL FRIENDS!....
so we know she doesnt NEED them either if she has u.
 

Skel

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Anything a person needs to lie about is cheating.
 

Bobbles

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I think if she is dancing just holding hands with her prior male friends that is ok. If she is slow dancing even with her prior male friends that is not ok. Dancing 1 on 1 with anyone she doesn't know is not ok.
 

MightyMate

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Cheating is after a date. If she went on date its a cheat. You cant date anybody else than Your partner. Thats simple. About dancing it depends. Its not cheating if she didn it once, and You said not to. But since that if it happends its a cheat. Also depends on kind of dance. For sure none of my girls is allowed to dance with naybody. But.. Some people let their woman dance with friends. Well im not that kind of man. My wman is fully mine.
But..
When i want to **** a girl that has boyfriend. I tell her.... WITHOUT KISSING IN LIPS ITS NOT A CHEAT.
funny thing. they alays do ******* and have sex in few minutes.
I should add it to tips section. And to bible. Its mad stuff.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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