Don Juan De Joffe
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All i see on earlier topics is people saying C&F, can someone give me a detailed explanation as to what that is?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
What is C&F?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Coffee and Fudgebrownies work all the time. Give it a try!
TillTheEndOfTime
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C&F = ****y and funny
It is a strategy some people use with woman. The main principle is to show them a confident side of yourself and hence increase their attraction to you by being ****y, yet funny at the same time. Rudeness or arrogance is a big no no however and must be distinguished frm ****y and funny approaches.
It is a strategy some people use with woman. The main principle is to show them a confident side of yourself and hence increase their attraction to you by being ****y, yet funny at the same time. Rudeness or arrogance is a big no no however and must be distinguished frm ****y and funny approaches.
LOL are you serious?
C = ****y
F = Funny
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I'm new too, but I read the Bible like 6 months ago, then joined this month.
C = ****y
F = Funny
When you don't know an answer to something that everyone seems to know, You read the link at the top right of the page. It says
"New Here?
We suggest checking out The DJ Bible before posting."
I'm new too, but I read the Bible like 6 months ago, then joined this month.
Don Juan De Joffe
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So to be ****y and funny is good? Dont girls hate ****y guys? How does one perform the mixture succesfully?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Don Juan De Joffe
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Bussey: ill learn the bible, ill learnt every Don Juan tip know too man, Ill become the master blaster, and then Ill come and Ill be the ONE giving advice, How many woman have u kissed? And How many woman have u slept with?
Don Juan De Joffe
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saki: Why do you think we are all here learning this , so we can become the ultimate? Am I right? All of us are learning Don Juan ways because we want to be with over 1000 woman in our life and we want to be able to satisy every single one of them and in the end we are all out their to satisfy all the beauitful woman and to see who gets the most and becomes most known.
Anaxibios
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Yes, that might be why most ppl do it, but the other side of it is not numbers, but overall enjoyment of life.
You appear to still be thinking of a DJ as a status thing; unfortunately a large part of being a DJ (i'm not there yet!) is being happy with yourself and not comparing yourself to ppl.
It is all about making your life better, getting laid is just a great side effect. A VERY great side effect...
You appear to still be thinking of a DJ as a status thing; unfortunately a large part of being a DJ (i'm not there yet!) is being happy with yourself and not comparing yourself to ppl.
It is all about making your life better, getting laid is just a great side effect. A VERY great side effect...
Francisco d'Anconia
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snicker I thought more people would join in on your bandwagon, too bad... I wanted a reason to say "Cream cheese and Frankfurters." Oh well, I'm sure it'll be asked again sometime...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Don Juan De Joffe
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Fransico: Ive been reading every1's replies yours seem to be most knowledable, are u a Don Juan? How many girls you scored? How many rejected? etc...
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