"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What is C&F?

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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C&F = ****y and funny

It is a strategy some people use with woman. The main principle is to show them a confident side of yourself and hence increase their attraction to you by being ****y, yet funny at the same time. Rudeness or arrogance is a big no no however and must be distinguished frm ****y and funny approaches.
 

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LOL are you serious?
C = ****y
F = Funny

When you don't know an answer to something that everyone seems to know, You read the link at the top right of the page. It says

"New Here?
We suggest checking out The DJ Bible before posting."

I'm new too, but I read the Bible like 6 months ago, then joined this month.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bussey: ill learn the bible, ill learnt every Don Juan tip know too man, Ill become the master blaster, and then Ill come and Ill be the ONE giving advice, How many woman have u kissed? And How many woman have u slept with?
 

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Originally posted by Don Juan De Joffe
Bussey: ill learn the bible, ill learnt every Don Juan tip know too man, Ill become the master blaster, and then Ill come and Ill be the ONE giving advice, How many woman have u kissed? And How many woman have u slept with?
dont worry about how many girls people have slept with, worry about yourself son and only you! worry about your game, not other peoples. That is your first DJ tip of the day:D
 
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saki: Why do you think we are all here learning this , so we can become the ultimate? Am I right? All of us are learning Don Juan ways because we want to be with over 1000 woman in our life and we want to be able to satisy every single one of them and in the end we are all out their to satisfy all the beauitful woman and to see who gets the most and becomes most known.
 

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Yes, that might be why most ppl do it, but the other side of it is not numbers, but overall enjoyment of life.

You appear to still be thinking of a DJ as a status thing; unfortunately a large part of being a DJ (i'm not there yet!) is being happy with yourself and not comparing yourself to ppl.

It is all about making your life better, getting laid is just a great side effect. A VERY great side effect...
 

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Originally posted by Life-Trainee
Coffee and Fudgebrownies work all the time. Give it a try!
:D snicker :D

I thought more people would join in on your bandwagon, too bad... I wanted a reason to say "Cream cheese and Frankfurters." Oh well, I'm sure it'll be asked again sometime...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Fransico: Ive been reading every1's replies yours seem to be most knowledable, are u a Don Juan? How many girls you scored? How many rejected? etc...
 
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