That's right. I know this girl that claims she is a virgin and she really is. Her bf, who is my cousin, even told me she was and that they never had sex. But, he told me that they did "everything" but sex, including fingering her and her doing blowwjobs. So, I asked her if she was a virgin and she said yes. Then I told her, I think that's bs you saying you are a virgin when you have been fingered and also done oral sex. She says that fingering and oral sex is not sex, so she is a virgin. In a way, I agree with her, but in a way I disagree with her because being fingered and oral is not very "virgin like". What are your guys opinions on this? Is a girl a virgin even if she has done everything but sex, or not a virgin? I'm kinda in the middle on this.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
What is a virgin?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Yes it does.Skel said:getting fingered and having oral sex does not mean she lost her virginity
MacAvoy
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From Chasing Amy "virginity is lost through physical penetration"
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
Dude the whole point of being a virgin is refraining from doing sexual practices with someone. So yes maybe her cherry hasnt popped yet, but i wouldnt consider this girl a virgin by my idealogy.
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In that case, I lost my virginity at 10 years old.
Actually, 14, but meh
Actually, 14, but meh
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Virgin = untouched, not blemished by sexual contact with another person, pure!
She is a typical hor trying to justify her hordoms - stupid hor states in a girly innocent high pitched voice, "I chomp on a penis as if it were a Vlassic pickle yet I am unblemished and pure!"...
Welcome to the 21st century Hor logic!!
Say "No" to hos!!!
She is a typical hor trying to justify her hordoms - stupid hor states in a girly innocent high pitched voice, "I chomp on a penis as if it were a Vlassic pickle yet I am unblemished and pure!"...
Welcome to the 21st century Hor logic!!
Say "No" to hos!!!
Kevin Cass
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in my book virgin means not penetrated (as in penis going into vagina). that doesnt mean a girl hasn't been eaten out, sucked ****, gotten fingered, given handjobs.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
What if the girl had tons of ANAL? the definition of virgin is so loose. I think she's still a virgin if she hasn't done ANAL, normal sex, skull F8cked or finger f*cked. o well doesn't matter by the end of highschool only the wicked ugly, prude or religious ones are "virgins" which probably accounts for 5% of the whole school.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
Oral sex is sex. Virginity is never having had sex. Therefore, having oral sex means you've lost your virginity.
Some girls are so dumb. I heard of a few religious girls that didn't want to be penetrated vaginally until marriage so they allow men to fvck them in the ass. But in their mind they are still virgins. :crackup: yeah tell that to your future husband, I am sure he will agree with you lol.
Virginity dictionary definition: "The condition of being chaste: chastity, decency, innocence, modesty, purity, virtue, virtuousness."
I don't think girls that give oral and had their slit fingered can fall under any of the terms described above to qualify as a virgin.
Virginity dictionary definition: "The condition of being chaste: chastity, decency, innocence, modesty, purity, virtue, virtuousness."
I don't think girls that give oral and had their slit fingered can fall under any of the terms described above to qualify as a virgin.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
Scrumtulescence said:Oral sex is sex. Virginity is never having had sex. Therefore, having oral sex means you've lost your virginity.
oral sex
Virginity= not having sex.... I heard of a PORNO star thats considered a virgin b/c she only has anal sex. I think this technicality is just a way of people to justify their misconducts.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.