"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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What IS a Quality Woman?

mrgoodstuff

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News flash....ALL WOMEN HAVE FLAWS!

Which ones can you live with? Which ones are dealbreakers?

Every quality comes with drawbacks

Also what do you bring to the game? You have to have the faith that you DESERVE a loving , caring affectionate woman, and if this one doesn't work, then you CAN find another. i think it takes some guys a period of a few casual flings after a failed relationship to remind themselves that they got the one, and they can get another. Then you can truly enjoy the company of a quality woman. WHen you shine a light on her you see the bright spots, not the shadows..

One thing is for sure...If you go for appearance as your #1 criteria, you will be disappointed.
110% agreed on appearance for the #1 criteria. Women who manage their appearance to be the ulitimate priority tend to be "crooks" when it comes to men.

We never answered what is a "quality" woman?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wifehunter

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Where the hell you gonna find that at nowadys?
You're not. Unless, you have friends in high places, and the situation/timing is right.
 

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1) Good Family Values, close with Both parents.
2) No tattoos or piercings
3) Has actual real hobbies that don't include Nightclubs,drugs and raves.
4) Doesn't play childish games and knows how to have a mature adult relationship
5)Values your attention and time
6) Is secure and not the jealous type
7) Treats eveeyone around them with kindess
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Suave88

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I've seen post after post on what a low-quality woman is and I am kinda confused because I haven't seen much of what a high-quality woman is discussed in my past few days of being on this forum. So, gentlemen, I'd like your direct opinion on what a quality woman is. One that texts you everyday and is infatuated with you and only you and is willing to do most everything and anything to keep you? I would like some of the senior DJs to comment on this since they've seen the most action and have the most experience.
It does not exist. There is no one perfect. Definitions vary from memeber to member. Here, you will only get opinions, and very few facts. Go after what you like and forget about the rest of us, your friends, and your family.
 
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