"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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what is a good size to aim for?

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I am 5"8...only 135 lb with 4.1% bf (natrually skinny)

what is a good proportion to reach and maintain?

how many inches arms, chest, waist, and legs should i be aiming for?

what about body weight?

thanks
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Warboss Alex

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whatever size you feel/look your best at. just eat and train and see what happens.
 

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It depends on the kind of body you are looking for. Some people dig the cut look, which you would get at around 150 lbs and low bodyfat (around 8-9%). Other people prefer the stocky look, which could take you to around 180 lbs.

It's all up to personal preference. Personally, I'm shooting for 165 lbs and 8% bodyfat, but that's just me.
 

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There are some generell "ideal" standards which weight you will look good @:

Weight: 180 lbs 10% BF @ 5'8

Which give you roughly:

Arms: 15.5"
Chest: 43"
Waist: 32"
Thighs: 23"

These are far from correct though. Your genetic potential will determine how fast your muscles will grow and the proportion you get.
 

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If I were you I'd shoot for 155 with low bf. Twenty lbs increments are great for judging your progress.

10 lbs can be a weekly phase because of water weight and maybe you're switching from cutting to bulking, etc. 20 lbs implies progress.

Then, when you reach 155 you can decide to cut more bf or keep gaining.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Being 'skinny' doesn't make you at 4.1% bodyfat.

At that measurement, you would be absolutely shredded. However, it's possible. I'd be extremely jealous if thats the case.


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