"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What is a Good Response to "How Are You?"

DJ4Life

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can't be better..............(look straight into the eyes with a sincere face) now that you are here (smile)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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d2j

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if you dont think its important then obviously you dont get it

dont ask them how they are thats the most boring thing you could ever say EVERYONE says that

thats the kind of thing you say to your mates
 

muttley

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Come on dudes, she is just asking "HOW YOU ARE". You reply by saying "im always good thanks, how are you feeling?". You dont gotta come out with some c+f reply or something. You guys are taking it too far. GEEZ, get some conversational skills will ya!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Maximus Rex

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Why would you need a c&f response to this?
 

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If it is an normal question, RESPOND WITH AN NORMAL ANSWER. I damn near imagine myself cringing and continuously face palming myself upon the thought of a girl saying in a normal tone: "How are you" and some dude responding "in sex? great". Yes, it is funny, but it depends on much on HOW she asks you. This has the potential to fail B.I.G time! That would probably be fine if she was asking you in an flirty manner or whatever, but I prefer the Conan o brien response. :p

The most important thing is not WHAT YOU SAY, but HOW YOU SAY IT. Or, people don't remember what you said, but how you made them feel. So hang around with DJ's, that stuff will slowly get into your head, the next thing you know it, you will naturally be saying neat stuff... Or if you don't know any, you have to develop yourself and these things will come naturally, but I think it's gonna be harder alone, when you see others doing it, you get an good idea of how to act... PS: The more you socialize, the easier and more natural these things are!! Good luck, good thread BTW.
 
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I always say slowly with a dead pan face "Tremendous", really emphasizing the word but not smiling at all.

I also like that previous poster's suggestion of "Outstanding" as well. I think if you can create a dichotomy between the power of the word you use, but having a serious expression when saying it, without any fake emotion in it, it lights up the chick's broca's region and triggers fascination in her.

It also creates the impression that high states of well-being are pretty much normal for you, and no big deal.

I don't think that manic happiness impresses potential pick ups, unless everyone is feeling the same way and its kind of like a group vibe that everyone partakes of. But on the other hand I don't think a standard response like "not bad" or "pretty good" does anything to ramp up her attraction response either.

Perhaps the word "Superb" would work as well, the key is to say it slowly with a low, smooth voice, while making intense, smouldering eye contact with her.
 
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