"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
What is a Good Response to "How Are You?"
- Thread starter INXS
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Vanilla
Senior Don Juan
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Maximus Rex
Banned
doctorj
Don Juan
The most important thing is not WHAT YOU SAY, but HOW YOU SAY IT. Or, people don't remember what you said, but how you made them feel. So hang around with DJ's, that stuff will slowly get into your head, the next thing you know it, you will naturally be saying neat stuff... Or if you don't know any, you have to develop yourself and these things will come naturally, but I think it's gonna be harder alone, when you see others doing it, you get an good idea of how to act... PS: The more you socialize, the easier and more natural these things are!! Good luck, good thread BTW.
d!ckmojo
Senior Don Juan
I also like that previous poster's suggestion of "Outstanding" as well. I think if you can create a dichotomy between the power of the word you use, but having a serious expression when saying it, without any fake emotion in it, it lights up the chick's broca's region and triggers fascination in her.
It also creates the impression that high states of well-being are pretty much normal for you, and no big deal.
I don't think that manic happiness impresses potential pick ups, unless everyone is feeling the same way and its kind of like a group vibe that everyone partakes of. But on the other hand I don't think a standard response like "not bad" or "pretty good" does anything to ramp up her attraction response either.
Perhaps the word "Superb" would work as well, the key is to say it slowly with a low, smooth voice, while making intense, smouldering eye contact with her.