"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What is a Good Response to "How Are You?"
- Thread starter INXS
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Vanilla
Senior Don Juan
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Maximus Rex
Banned
doctorj
Don Juan
The most important thing is not WHAT YOU SAY, but HOW YOU SAY IT. Or, people don't remember what you said, but how you made them feel. So hang around with DJ's, that stuff will slowly get into your head, the next thing you know it, you will naturally be saying neat stuff... Or if you don't know any, you have to develop yourself and these things will come naturally, but I think it's gonna be harder alone, when you see others doing it, you get an good idea of how to act... PS: The more you socialize, the easier and more natural these things are!! Good luck, good thread BTW.
d!ckmojo
Senior Don Juan
I also like that previous poster's suggestion of "Outstanding" as well. I think if you can create a dichotomy between the power of the word you use, but having a serious expression when saying it, without any fake emotion in it, it lights up the chick's broca's region and triggers fascination in her.
It also creates the impression that high states of well-being are pretty much normal for you, and no big deal.
I don't think that manic happiness impresses potential pick ups, unless everyone is feeling the same way and its kind of like a group vibe that everyone partakes of. But on the other hand I don't think a standard response like "not bad" or "pretty good" does anything to ramp up her attraction response either.
Perhaps the word "Superb" would work as well, the key is to say it slowly with a low, smooth voice, while making intense, smouldering eye contact with her.