"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What is a GF anyway?

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For real, I ben thinking bout this isnce a freind of mine droped by to "spend time" with his girl. They sat together on my roof talking. Think they kissed at the last hour or something. Granted they have very uptight families but it's got me thinking. Half the time the dudes in my class are bleery eyed cuz they spent all night talking to their sweethearts.

Half of them (that's what 1/4 of everyone I know, math sp?) throw a mini-celbration (smoke/drink on him) when they kiss, takes a while too. BTW excet a few people the other half are too broke from dating to buy anyone anything.

Some philosphy please.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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By your post, I'm assuming you're a younger guy. To put it simply, it's from a lack of maturity. Experiencing new things is one of the most exciting things in life. Enjoy it while you can. The excitement fades with age.
 

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Lol, you'd think so wouldn't ya? I'm 19 actually(believe it or not). Before I started talking to my classmates I allways thought when you'r 5-10 you'r BF/GF relationship goes like that. As in you hold hands, yacker on the phoine, all that mushy crap. It's a prety uptight place I go to school at but when you'r 17+ does it still hold?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Steg said:
Lol, you'd think so wouldn't ya? I'm 19 actually(believe it or not). Before I started talking to my classmates I allways thought when you'r 5-10 you'r BF/GF relationship goes like that. As in you hold hands, yacker on the phoine, all that mushy crap. It's a prety uptight place I go to school at but when you'r 17+ does it still hold?

Sucks to go to your school, dude. I'm sure not every chick is a prude, though. I mean, if you're looking to get laid, I'm sure that there are some freaks to be found.
 

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There's bound to be some (still looking). IT's just so weird when guy's brag about having spent 60 hours talking on thier new phones. Cell bill comes to something like 150~200 USD. Like we talked about once for that kinda money ... :D
 
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