"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What is a GF anyway?

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For real, I ben thinking bout this isnce a freind of mine droped by to "spend time" with his girl. They sat together on my roof talking. Think they kissed at the last hour or something. Granted they have very uptight families but it's got me thinking. Half the time the dudes in my class are bleery eyed cuz they spent all night talking to their sweethearts.

Half of them (that's what 1/4 of everyone I know, math sp?) throw a mini-celbration (smoke/drink on him) when they kiss, takes a while too. BTW excet a few people the other half are too broke from dating to buy anyone anything.

Some philosphy please.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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By your post, I'm assuming you're a younger guy. To put it simply, it's from a lack of maturity. Experiencing new things is one of the most exciting things in life. Enjoy it while you can. The excitement fades with age.
 
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Lol, you'd think so wouldn't ya? I'm 19 actually(believe it or not). Before I started talking to my classmates I allways thought when you'r 5-10 you'r BF/GF relationship goes like that. As in you hold hands, yacker on the phoine, all that mushy crap. It's a prety uptight place I go to school at but when you'r 17+ does it still hold?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Steg said:
Lol, you'd think so wouldn't ya? I'm 19 actually(believe it or not). Before I started talking to my classmates I allways thought when you'r 5-10 you'r BF/GF relationship goes like that. As in you hold hands, yacker on the phoine, all that mushy crap. It's a prety uptight place I go to school at but when you'r 17+ does it still hold?
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Sucks to go to your school, dude. I'm sure not every chick is a prude, though. I mean, if you're looking to get laid, I'm sure that there are some freaks to be found.
 
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There's bound to be some (still looking). IT's just so weird when guy's brag about having spent 60 hours talking on thier new phones. Cell bill comes to something like 150~200 USD. Like we talked about once for that kinda money ... :D
 
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