I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I just slept with a 24 year old woman a few days ago and I'm 42. Since I'm beyond trying to pick her up, does this mean I'm having a bigger midlife crisis?
So what? What does it prove? Almost any 42 year old guy can have sex with 24 year old woman (majority of them mostly 2-5/10s in looks but still). What's next? Another 23y old chick? Sticking dck into a female student is one of the easiest things you can do being +40y old guy. Except you should be in place where its of tertiary value for you. Are you in such a place?I just slept with a 24 year old woman a few days ago and I'm 42. Since I'm beyond trying to pick her up, does this mean I'm having a bigger midlife crisis?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
What I'm looking for is a long term relationship. I'm emotionally retarded and socially underdeveloped and have found through trail and error that I can meet people roughly half my age in a relationships much better than people my age. There's a few people here who think I'm making that up and have convinced me not to pursue my sexual, social, and relationship needs and that has frustrated me, so in turn I post things like this to stir the pot so to speak; it's good for the forum too.
