PeasantPlayer
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Applies to women in general good video, pretty basic knowledge though.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What Indian women really want
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
parkthebus
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The forbidden white European fruit
parkthebus
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I don't think money falls under status.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Gawd even Indian guys find their woman a huge p i t a. They're always paining the ears. And chomping on their jewelry trying to figure out if its real gold. Oh well if you want to go to the next level of high maintenance go for it. If you're that way inclined try and find a goanese Indian girl better yet a Sri Lankan girl they are much nicer.
JohnChops
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I have to chime in. I was FWB with an indian chick for a good 1.5 years (off and on) and I can tell you she was high maintenance and annoying. By annoying, I mean she believed she was a strong empowered "feminist", however she gave into my every whim anyway. Her standards were high as hell! Man I feel bad for any dude wanting to date this chick. She said she only wanted to go for guys who 1)lifted 2) are going to be doctors 3) had a lot of money 4) nice car, materialistic, we surpassed that after 1 and 2.
Does this apply to every indian chick? No. I'm just sharing what I found from knowing one pretty well. All her friends seemed to be about the same way as well, except 1 or 2 who were on their way to success by themselves. The others were just bsing thru college hoping to find some dude to take care of them.
Does this apply to every indian chick? No. I'm just sharing what I found from knowing one pretty well. All her friends seemed to be about the same way as well, except 1 or 2 who were on their way to success by themselves. The others were just bsing thru college hoping to find some dude to take care of them.
I've always had a weakness for beautiful Indian and Pakistani women. The prettier the face and the nicer the body the more it makes me wanna chase. Far too many seem very arrogant and cliquey (even the decent and not so attractive ones) and I feel like any attempts to try and talk to them is likely to be disastrous. On one end I hear they typically are ultra conservative and on the other end I hear they are ultra slutty (especially the westernized ones). At the same time I've seen far too many Indian men playing the role of "protector" where they would do their best to keep non-Indian men away from Indian women. I find the same to be true of Persian girls. The latter just takes all the arrogance and materialism and cranks it up to unimaginable levels. This is very frustrating as many of the girls of the nationalities I've mentioned can be extremely attractive yet they seem much more unreachable than their western counterparts.
On the other hand, the video provided by the OP doesn't surprise me. When it all comes down to it they're just women.
Bible_Belt
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I went to school with a beautiful Indian girl. Later, I went to her arranged marriage. Her new husband was just finishing his residency as a neurosurgeon.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I am sorry to say you are wrong. It does apply to every Indian chick. Well, 98 per cent of them.
Dunno about his point "women cheat with the rich guy in most cases".
In my experience, from what' happened to me personally, as well as what Ive witnessed happened to other people, many times women will cheat with losers or just some guy who's very attractive to her. Sometimes you cannot even make sense out of why she picked that particular guy.
Also, while the guy in the video makes some good points, I've found South Asian women to be susceptible to the same things Western women are susceptible to. However Indian, Pakistani, etc women do these things less than Western women though from what I've seen. They seem to cheat less, lie less, or can be less full of sh!t about the kind of guy they will sleep with.
However, trust when I say "brown" girls can be very sneaky and put up very good fronts for people (i.e. a facade). Two very very religious people I knew during college ended up having a little fling that they thought no one knew about. Today she is married, and he's in a serious relationship...and I wouldnt be surprised if her husband was told she's a virgin or that she's never had sex outside of a relationship.
In my experience, from what' happened to me personally, as well as what Ive witnessed happened to other people, many times women will cheat with losers or just some guy who's very attractive to her. Sometimes you cannot even make sense out of why she picked that particular guy.
Also, while the guy in the video makes some good points, I've found South Asian women to be susceptible to the same things Western women are susceptible to. However Indian, Pakistani, etc women do these things less than Western women though from what I've seen. They seem to cheat less, lie less, or can be less full of sh!t about the kind of guy they will sleep with.
However, trust when I say "brown" girls can be very sneaky and put up very good fronts for people (i.e. a facade). Two very very religious people I knew during college ended up having a little fling that they thought no one knew about. Today she is married, and he's in a serious relationship...and I wouldnt be surprised if her husband was told she's a virgin or that she's never had sex outside of a relationship.