PeasantPlayer
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Applies to women in general good video, pretty basic knowledge though.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What Indian women really want
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
parkthebus
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The forbidden white European fruit
parkthebus
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I don't think money falls under status.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Gawd even Indian guys find their woman a huge p i t a. They're always paining the ears. And chomping on their jewelry trying to figure out if its real gold. Oh well if you want to go to the next level of high maintenance go for it. If you're that way inclined try and find a goanese Indian girl better yet a Sri Lankan girl they are much nicer.
JohnChops
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I have to chime in. I was FWB with an indian chick for a good 1.5 years (off and on) and I can tell you she was high maintenance and annoying. By annoying, I mean she believed she was a strong empowered "feminist", however she gave into my every whim anyway. Her standards were high as hell! Man I feel bad for any dude wanting to date this chick. She said she only wanted to go for guys who 1)lifted 2) are going to be doctors 3) had a lot of money 4) nice car, materialistic, we surpassed that after 1 and 2.
Does this apply to every indian chick? No. I'm just sharing what I found from knowing one pretty well. All her friends seemed to be about the same way as well, except 1 or 2 who were on their way to success by themselves. The others were just bsing thru college hoping to find some dude to take care of them.
Does this apply to every indian chick? No. I'm just sharing what I found from knowing one pretty well. All her friends seemed to be about the same way as well, except 1 or 2 who were on their way to success by themselves. The others were just bsing thru college hoping to find some dude to take care of them.
I've always had a weakness for beautiful Indian and Pakistani women. The prettier the face and the nicer the body the more it makes me wanna chase. Far too many seem very arrogant and cliquey (even the decent and not so attractive ones) and I feel like any attempts to try and talk to them is likely to be disastrous. On one end I hear they typically are ultra conservative and on the other end I hear they are ultra slutty (especially the westernized ones). At the same time I've seen far too many Indian men playing the role of "protector" where they would do their best to keep non-Indian men away from Indian women. I find the same to be true of Persian girls. The latter just takes all the arrogance and materialism and cranks it up to unimaginable levels. This is very frustrating as many of the girls of the nationalities I've mentioned can be extremely attractive yet they seem much more unreachable than their western counterparts.
On the other hand, the video provided by the OP doesn't surprise me. When it all comes down to it they're just women.
Bible_Belt
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I went to school with a beautiful Indian girl. Later, I went to her arranged marriage. Her new husband was just finishing his residency as a neurosurgeon.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I am sorry to say you are wrong. It does apply to every Indian chick. Well, 98 per cent of them.
Dunno about his point "women cheat with the rich guy in most cases".
In my experience, from what' happened to me personally, as well as what Ive witnessed happened to other people, many times women will cheat with losers or just some guy who's very attractive to her. Sometimes you cannot even make sense out of why she picked that particular guy.
Also, while the guy in the video makes some good points, I've found South Asian women to be susceptible to the same things Western women are susceptible to. However Indian, Pakistani, etc women do these things less than Western women though from what I've seen. They seem to cheat less, lie less, or can be less full of sh!t about the kind of guy they will sleep with.
However, trust when I say "brown" girls can be very sneaky and put up very good fronts for people (i.e. a facade). Two very very religious people I knew during college ended up having a little fling that they thought no one knew about. Today she is married, and he's in a serious relationship...and I wouldnt be surprised if her husband was told she's a virgin or that she's never had sex outside of a relationship.
In my experience, from what' happened to me personally, as well as what Ive witnessed happened to other people, many times women will cheat with losers or just some guy who's very attractive to her. Sometimes you cannot even make sense out of why she picked that particular guy.
Also, while the guy in the video makes some good points, I've found South Asian women to be susceptible to the same things Western women are susceptible to. However Indian, Pakistani, etc women do these things less than Western women though from what I've seen. They seem to cheat less, lie less, or can be less full of sh!t about the kind of guy they will sleep with.
However, trust when I say "brown" girls can be very sneaky and put up very good fronts for people (i.e. a facade). Two very very religious people I knew during college ended up having a little fling that they thought no one knew about. Today she is married, and he's in a serious relationship...and I wouldnt be surprised if her husband was told she's a virgin or that she's never had sex outside of a relationship.