PeasantPlayer
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Applies to women in general good video, pretty basic knowledge though.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What Indian women really want
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
parkthebus
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The forbidden white European fruit
parkthebus
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I don't think money falls under status.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Gawd even Indian guys find their woman a huge p i t a. They're always paining the ears. And chomping on their jewelry trying to figure out if its real gold. Oh well if you want to go to the next level of high maintenance go for it. If you're that way inclined try and find a goanese Indian girl better yet a Sri Lankan girl they are much nicer.
JohnChops
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I have to chime in. I was FWB with an indian chick for a good 1.5 years (off and on) and I can tell you she was high maintenance and annoying. By annoying, I mean she believed she was a strong empowered "feminist", however she gave into my every whim anyway. Her standards were high as hell! Man I feel bad for any dude wanting to date this chick. She said she only wanted to go for guys who 1)lifted 2) are going to be doctors 3) had a lot of money 4) nice car, materialistic, we surpassed that after 1 and 2.
Does this apply to every indian chick? No. I'm just sharing what I found from knowing one pretty well. All her friends seemed to be about the same way as well, except 1 or 2 who were on their way to success by themselves. The others were just bsing thru college hoping to find some dude to take care of them.
Does this apply to every indian chick? No. I'm just sharing what I found from knowing one pretty well. All her friends seemed to be about the same way as well, except 1 or 2 who were on their way to success by themselves. The others were just bsing thru college hoping to find some dude to take care of them.
I've always had a weakness for beautiful Indian and Pakistani women. The prettier the face and the nicer the body the more it makes me wanna chase. Far too many seem very arrogant and cliquey (even the decent and not so attractive ones) and I feel like any attempts to try and talk to them is likely to be disastrous. On one end I hear they typically are ultra conservative and on the other end I hear they are ultra slutty (especially the westernized ones). At the same time I've seen far too many Indian men playing the role of "protector" where they would do their best to keep non-Indian men away from Indian women. I find the same to be true of Persian girls. The latter just takes all the arrogance and materialism and cranks it up to unimaginable levels. This is very frustrating as many of the girls of the nationalities I've mentioned can be extremely attractive yet they seem much more unreachable than their western counterparts.
On the other hand, the video provided by the OP doesn't surprise me. When it all comes down to it they're just women.
Bible_Belt
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I went to school with a beautiful Indian girl. Later, I went to her arranged marriage. Her new husband was just finishing his residency as a neurosurgeon.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I am sorry to say you are wrong. It does apply to every Indian chick. Well, 98 per cent of them.
Dunno about his point "women cheat with the rich guy in most cases".
In my experience, from what' happened to me personally, as well as what Ive witnessed happened to other people, many times women will cheat with losers or just some guy who's very attractive to her. Sometimes you cannot even make sense out of why she picked that particular guy.
Also, while the guy in the video makes some good points, I've found South Asian women to be susceptible to the same things Western women are susceptible to. However Indian, Pakistani, etc women do these things less than Western women though from what I've seen. They seem to cheat less, lie less, or can be less full of sh!t about the kind of guy they will sleep with.
However, trust when I say "brown" girls can be very sneaky and put up very good fronts for people (i.e. a facade). Two very very religious people I knew during college ended up having a little fling that they thought no one knew about. Today she is married, and he's in a serious relationship...and I wouldnt be surprised if her husband was told she's a virgin or that she's never had sex outside of a relationship.
In my experience, from what' happened to me personally, as well as what Ive witnessed happened to other people, many times women will cheat with losers or just some guy who's very attractive to her. Sometimes you cannot even make sense out of why she picked that particular guy.
Also, while the guy in the video makes some good points, I've found South Asian women to be susceptible to the same things Western women are susceptible to. However Indian, Pakistani, etc women do these things less than Western women though from what I've seen. They seem to cheat less, lie less, or can be less full of sh!t about the kind of guy they will sleep with.
However, trust when I say "brown" girls can be very sneaky and put up very good fronts for people (i.e. a facade). Two very very religious people I knew during college ended up having a little fling that they thought no one knew about. Today she is married, and he's in a serious relationship...and I wouldnt be surprised if her husband was told she's a virgin or that she's never had sex outside of a relationship.