Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What if you're making out with one girl, but are interested in another?

DJHoolahoop

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I had something happen tonight that is more than I've got recently. But the only thing is though, is that while it was a good time and all that. That there's this other girl I'm interested in. This other girl seems to strike a bigger chord than this last girl, but I'm afraid that she'll get the wrong idea if I start wanting to hang out with her and not this other girl.

I don't want her to think that I would just fool around with this other girl and then try to get with her like I'm a player or something lol. But the truth is that I find this other girl attractive and I'm single, so I don't see why my having a little fun with one girl should ruin any potential with this other girl.

What I'm trying to say is basically that it's the other girl that I want. Not the one I fooled around with tonight. So I just don't to let off the wrong impression and make her think that I would just try and use her too.

So what should I do? I'm just going to try and shoot for it anyways, but is there anything I can do or say in case she becomes reluctant to even try anything?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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JH6

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keep the two girls apart, and keep doing your thing and running game on both.

Done deal.

I do this alot, the only thing is having parties at your house, you can't invite all the girls that you bang because that will get you busted.
 

DJHoolahoop

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but it's a case of the one girl seeing me making out with this other girl.
 
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