"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What if you're making out with one girl, but are interested in another?

DJHoolahoop

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I had something happen tonight that is more than I've got recently. But the only thing is though, is that while it was a good time and all that. That there's this other girl I'm interested in. This other girl seems to strike a bigger chord than this last girl, but I'm afraid that she'll get the wrong idea if I start wanting to hang out with her and not this other girl.

I don't want her to think that I would just fool around with this other girl and then try to get with her like I'm a player or something lol. But the truth is that I find this other girl attractive and I'm single, so I don't see why my having a little fun with one girl should ruin any potential with this other girl.

What I'm trying to say is basically that it's the other girl that I want. Not the one I fooled around with tonight. So I just don't to let off the wrong impression and make her think that I would just try and use her too.

So what should I do? I'm just going to try and shoot for it anyways, but is there anything I can do or say in case she becomes reluctant to even try anything?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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JH6

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keep the two girls apart, and keep doing your thing and running game on both.

Done deal.

I do this alot, the only thing is having parties at your house, you can't invite all the girls that you bang because that will get you busted.
 

DJHoolahoop

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but it's a case of the one girl seeing me making out with this other girl.
 
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