"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What if you're making out with one girl, but are interested in another?

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I had something happen tonight that is more than I've got recently. But the only thing is though, is that while it was a good time and all that. That there's this other girl I'm interested in. This other girl seems to strike a bigger chord than this last girl, but I'm afraid that she'll get the wrong idea if I start wanting to hang out with her and not this other girl.

I don't want her to think that I would just fool around with this other girl and then try to get with her like I'm a player or something lol. But the truth is that I find this other girl attractive and I'm single, so I don't see why my having a little fun with one girl should ruin any potential with this other girl.

What I'm trying to say is basically that it's the other girl that I want. Not the one I fooled around with tonight. So I just don't to let off the wrong impression and make her think that I would just try and use her too.

So what should I do? I'm just going to try and shoot for it anyways, but is there anything I can do or say in case she becomes reluctant to even try anything?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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keep the two girls apart, and keep doing your thing and running game on both.

Done deal.

I do this alot, the only thing is having parties at your house, you can't invite all the girls that you bang because that will get you busted.
 
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but it's a case of the one girl seeing me making out with this other girl.
 
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