"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
what if you ask her out for a drink but she said
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
icantgetlaid
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a girl who wanted to go out with you/get to know you more/etc. wouldn't make that comment with a hard stop.
she would agree and then order non alcoholic .. or suggest coffee or something.
Right to a degree. But theres actually women out there who DONT drink...
I would turn it into a joke..like "oh so you prefer intravenous fluids for hydration?" just something cheeky/corny. Flip it on her and tell her a NON ALCOHOLIC drink...like tea. If she is still giving you excuses after that then drop her.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Or offer something else. Don't be such a lame dude where you have to try on alcohol to 'take the edge off', that's pvssy sh!t right there. You gotta learn to get drunk off life. That way everything you do is fun.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
dustmuffin
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Derek Flint
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Learn some attraction skills first...
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
No response warranted.
You are trying to be nice, invite her out and connect with her, and she is being sarcastic. What the hell is that?
Move on. This is not the time to come up with a witty comeback so she will see the light.
