So I was at the gym today and there was a girl that seemed kinda older than me (early/mid twenties) and I'm 18 turning 19, but I did the whole eye contact thing with her whenever we were around each other, and she reciprocated. However, it seemed like she was with a guy, so I'm wondering what does a DJ do in that situation where it seems like a girl is interested in you and you're interested in her, but she might be there with someone? Haha I'm assuming she was interested because a female friend that I was there with also mentioned that she noticed the girl was "hardcore checking me out" too.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What if she looks like she's with someone?
- Thread starter Fable
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Ever seen the movie "just friends" ? Anyway there's a scene in it in which Ryan Reynolds sees a girl checking him out at the ice rink. She's with another guy.Fable said:
Basically he confronts her and C/F tells her she should be ashamed of herself checking him out in front of her boyfriend. A bit over the top but I think the right idea. She of course denies that the dude is her BF.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
"You two make a cute couple."
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
lots of the other PUA -type forums (i dont recal any of this on Sosuave or in DJbible- correct me if im wrong) will have about approaching mixed 2-sets (a boy and girl)
same basic concepts...whatever context...
same basic concepts...whatever context...
Joe Stud
Master Don Juan
yes... that movie hit a few things we see on here. "lunch dates are weak" etc.
Joe Stud
Master Don Juan
yes... that movie hit a few things we see on here. "lunch dates are weak" etc.