"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What if she looks like she's with someone?

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So I was at the gym today and there was a girl that seemed kinda older than me (early/mid twenties) and I'm 18 turning 19, but I did the whole eye contact thing with her whenever we were around each other, and she reciprocated. However, it seemed like she was with a guy, so I'm wondering what does a DJ do in that situation where it seems like a girl is interested in you and you're interested in her, but she might be there with someone? Haha I'm assuming she was interested because a female friend that I was there with also mentioned that she noticed the girl was "hardcore checking me out" too.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Hi,

If its that hard to tell you make an approach and find out first hand. If shes interested you will get either a # or a date out of the interaction.

Fable said:
So I was at the gym today and there was a girl that seemed kinda older than me (early/mid twenties) and I'm 18 turning 19, but I did the whole eye contact thing with her whenever we were around each other, and she reciprocated. However, it seemed like she was with a guy, so I'm wondering what does a DJ do in that situation where it seems like a girl is interested in you and you're interested in her, but she might be there with someone? Haha I'm assuming she was interested because a female friend that I was there with also mentioned that she noticed the girl was "hardcore checking me out" too.
 

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Fable said:
So I was at the gym today and there was a girl that seemed kinda older than me (early/mid twenties) and I'm 18 turning 19, but I did the whole eye contact thing with her whenever we were around each other, and she reciprocated. However, it seemed like she was with a guy, so I'm wondering what does a DJ do in that situation where it seems like a girl is interested in you and you're interested in her, but she might be there with someone? Haha I'm assuming she was interested because a female friend that I was there with also mentioned that she noticed the girl was "hardcore checking me out" too.
Ever seen the movie "just friends" ? Anyway there's a scene in it in which Ryan Reynolds sees a girl checking him out at the ice rink. She's with another guy.
Basically he confronts her and C/F tells her she should be ashamed of herself checking him out in front of her boyfriend. A bit over the top but I think the right idea. She of course denies that the dude is her BF.
 

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jtlancer said:
Ever seen the movie "just friends" ? Anyway there's a scene in it in which Ryan Reynolds sees a girl checking him out at the ice rink. She's with another guy.
Basically he confronts her and C/F tells her she should be ashamed of herself checking him out in front of her boyfriend. A bit over the top but I think the right idea. She of course denies that the dude is her BF.
Haha. That's brilliant, I'll add it to the repertoire and see if I can get the balls to try it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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kingsam

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lots of the other PUA -type forums (i dont recal any of this on Sosuave or in DJbible- correct me if im wrong) will have about approaching mixed 2-sets (a boy and girl)
same basic concepts...whatever context...
 

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CaptainJ said:
Haha. That's brilliant, I'll add it to the repertoire and see if I can get the balls to try it.
Haha agreed :p

btw this movie is pretty damn genius so far lmao
 

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yes... that movie hit a few things we see on here. "lunch dates are weak" etc.
 

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yes... that movie hit a few things we see on here. "lunch dates are weak" etc.
 
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