So I was at the gym today and there was a girl that seemed kinda older than me (early/mid twenties) and I'm 18 turning 19, but I did the whole eye contact thing with her whenever we were around each other, and she reciprocated. However, it seemed like she was with a guy, so I'm wondering what does a DJ do in that situation where it seems like a girl is interested in you and you're interested in her, but she might be there with someone? Haha I'm assuming she was interested because a female friend that I was there with also mentioned that she noticed the girl was "hardcore checking me out" too.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What if she looks like she's with someone?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Ever seen the movie "just friends" ? Anyway there's a scene in it in which Ryan Reynolds sees a girl checking him out at the ice rink. She's with another guy.Fable said:
Basically he confronts her and C/F tells her she should be ashamed of herself checking him out in front of her boyfriend. A bit over the top but I think the right idea. She of course denies that the dude is her BF.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
"You two make a cute couple."
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
lots of the other PUA -type forums (i dont recal any of this on Sosuave or in DJbible- correct me if im wrong) will have about approaching mixed 2-sets (a boy and girl)
same basic concepts...whatever context...
same basic concepts...whatever context...
Joe Stud
Master Don Juan
yes... that movie hit a few things we see on here. "lunch dates are weak" etc.
Joe Stud
Master Don Juan
yes... that movie hit a few things we see on here. "lunch dates are weak" etc.