"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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what if she has moved on?

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heres a question for you all? what if you had a girl really really like you at a certain time but you were too preoccupied with another girl and messed her about as you werent interested! The girl i am talking about is about HB9 and i now feel that i'm ready to take her!

However, one promblem arises....i think that the girl has moved on as i 'messed her about too much'! is there any advice out there on how to revamp her feelings for me! Should my game be any different that it was before???
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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yeah well i was charming....mostly because i didnt give a ****e! o well at least i'll be able to test my game to see if its up to srcatch! exciting stuff!!
 

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I'm in the same situation, I'm wondering how to handle it too so when I get rid of my current G/F. I've already said to myself, i won't contact this new girl until my ex is completly out of my life.
 

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I never got around to posting the same question on this forum...

I used to be preoccupied with this one girl, but also dating another just in case the other didn't work out.

At one time (after several dates) she called me, to set something up.. I said i was busy and i'd call back.. However somehow i never did (not proud of this). After a week she called me again to ask if I was gonna do something with her..
Again i didn't really feel like it. About a month later she called me to ask if i wanted to get together with her under the condition that i was to leave at 4 pm because at that time she had already set something up with some other random guy, i replied kinda sarcastic "so you're gonna ask me to leave for this other guy? " and again i said i didn't feel like leaving for someone else and asked her to come to my place instead.. After that it kinda died out...

But now like 2 months later i contacted her a few times again and now she's dropping hints that she's moved on saying she's been keeping herself busy in the time i didnt pay any attention to her.

I've always considered this a loss to myself.. And now i'm starting to regret it.. I'm a dumb fcUck
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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