"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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what if she has moved on?

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heres a question for you all? what if you had a girl really really like you at a certain time but you were too preoccupied with another girl and messed her about as you werent interested! The girl i am talking about is about HB9 and i now feel that i'm ready to take her!

However, one promblem arises....i think that the girl has moved on as i 'messed her about too much'! is there any advice out there on how to revamp her feelings for me! Should my game be any different that it was before???
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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yeah well i was charming....mostly because i didnt give a ****e! o well at least i'll be able to test my game to see if its up to srcatch! exciting stuff!!
 
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I'm in the same situation, I'm wondering how to handle it too so when I get rid of my current G/F. I've already said to myself, i won't contact this new girl until my ex is completly out of my life.
 
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I never got around to posting the same question on this forum...

I used to be preoccupied with this one girl, but also dating another just in case the other didn't work out.

At one time (after several dates) she called me, to set something up.. I said i was busy and i'd call back.. However somehow i never did (not proud of this). After a week she called me again to ask if I was gonna do something with her..
Again i didn't really feel like it. About a month later she called me to ask if i wanted to get together with her under the condition that i was to leave at 4 pm because at that time she had already set something up with some other random guy, i replied kinda sarcastic "so you're gonna ask me to leave for this other guy? " and again i said i didn't feel like leaving for someone else and asked her to come to my place instead.. After that it kinda died out...

But now like 2 months later i contacted her a few times again and now she's dropping hints that she's moved on saying she's been keeping herself busy in the time i didnt pay any attention to her.

I've always considered this a loss to myself.. And now i'm starting to regret it.. I'm a dumb fcUck
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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