what if she has moved on?

[hot stuff]

heres a question for you all? what if you had a girl really really like you at a certain time but you were too preoccupied with another girl and messed her about as you werent interested! The girl i am talking about is about HB9 and i now feel that i'm ready to take her!

However, one promblem arises....i think that the girl has moved on as i 'messed her about too much'! is there any advice out there on how to revamp her feelings for me! Should my game be any different that it was before???

 

[MacDiddy]

yeah.. don't let her know that you've switched your attention back onto her... just be your charming self... if thats what you were.

 

[hot stuff]

yeah well i was charming....mostly because i didnt give a ****e! o well at least i'll be able to test my game to see if its up to srcatch! exciting stuff!!

 

[omgwtfm8]

I'm in the same situation, I'm wondering how to handle it too so when I get rid of my current G/F. I've already said to myself, i won't contact this new girl until my ex is completly out of my life.

 

[kRisk]

I never got around to posting the same question on this forum...

I used to be preoccupied with this one girl, but also dating another just in case the other didn't work out.

At one time (after several dates) she called me, to set something up.. I said i was busy and i'd call back.. However somehow i never did (not proud of this). After a week she called me again to ask if I was gonna do something with her..
Again i didn't really feel like it. About a month later she called me to ask if i wanted to get together with her under the condition that i was to leave at 4 pm because at that time she had already set something up with some other random guy, i replied kinda sarcastic "so you're gonna ask me to leave for this other guy? " and again i said i didn't feel like leaving for someone else and asked her to come to my place instead.. After that it kinda died out...

But now like 2 months later i contacted her a few times again and now she's dropping hints that she's moved on saying she's been keeping herself busy in the time i didnt pay any attention to her.

I've always considered this a loss to myself.. And now i'm starting to regret it.. I'm a dumb fcUck