"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What if I am just socially dumb? and have low EQ?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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- Read more news and stay up to date with what's happening in the world
- Join circles surrounding your personal hobbies (www.meetup.com)
- Have opportunity to do public speaking in small proportions
- Be realistic about who you are and going after women who are on your own level (trying for women above you will destroy your self-esteem through rejection and they manipulating you into Oneitis-ville)
- Find a woman who accepts you and your difficulties, and you accept hers.
- You can still work on yourself to become the highest potential. If you do nothing, you get nothing.
Good luck.
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Assuming you're not like seriously mentally deficient, if you do have a low IQ it's not necessarily a big deal for picking up women. If you're street smart that is more advantageous than being book smart and good at solving puzzles.
If you're just socially awkward, you need to get experience and positive reinforcement. You get this with lots and lots of practice. Push yourself out of your comfort zone every day by doing at least one social thing you're afraid of.
