"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What if I am just socially dumb? and have low EQ?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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- Read more news and stay up to date with what's happening in the world
- Join circles surrounding your personal hobbies (www.meetup.com)
- Have opportunity to do public speaking in small proportions
- Be realistic about who you are and going after women who are on your own level (trying for women above you will destroy your self-esteem through rejection and they manipulating you into Oneitis-ville)
- Find a woman who accepts you and your difficulties, and you accept hers.
- You can still work on yourself to become the highest potential. If you do nothing, you get nothing.
Good luck.
Exodus
Assuming you're not like seriously mentally deficient, if you do have a low IQ it's not necessarily a big deal for picking up women. If you're street smart that is more advantageous than being book smart and good at solving puzzles.
If you're just socially awkward, you need to get experience and positive reinforcement. You get this with lots and lots of practice. Push yourself out of your comfort zone every day by doing at least one social thing you're afraid of.
