"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What I learned from Sosuave.

I love Hyori Lee

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I'm going to keep this really simple.

There's only three things you need to be successful with women.

1. Respect yourself.
2. Respect her.
3. Be yourself.

That's all there is to it. Most AFCs didn't respect themselves. They let other people disrespect them. They let women disrespect them. They didn't know when to leave when a woman gave them disrespect. They didn't know how to handle flakes. They didn't know how to handle snotty women. They didn't know how to handle themselves when a guy disrespected them, a sign of insecurity. When you truly know how to respect yourself, a lot of your problems will disagree. Not only do respect yourself, but you must demand this self-respect.

The second is to respect her. Self-explanatory.

The third is to be yourself. Telling a chump to be himself is suicide because he'll just be a chump. But when that chump learns to have respect for himself and to have respect for that woman, he isn't a chump anymore. He has become a man.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bravo Hyori Lee,

I love this post because it reaks truth. It has been a while since I saw any of your posts, but it seems that either you are beginning to grasp the true concept of DJism or have grasped it completely.

My hat is off to you.

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