"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What I learned from Sosuave.

I love Hyori Lee

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I'm going to keep this really simple.

There's only three things you need to be successful with women.

1. Respect yourself.
2. Respect her.
3. Be yourself.

That's all there is to it. Most AFCs didn't respect themselves. They let other people disrespect them. They let women disrespect them. They didn't know when to leave when a woman gave them disrespect. They didn't know how to handle flakes. They didn't know how to handle snotty women. They didn't know how to handle themselves when a guy disrespected them, a sign of insecurity. When you truly know how to respect yourself, a lot of your problems will disagree. Not only do respect yourself, but you must demand this self-respect.

The second is to respect her. Self-explanatory.

The third is to be yourself. Telling a chump to be himself is suicide because he'll just be a chump. But when that chump learns to have respect for himself and to have respect for that woman, he isn't a chump anymore. He has become a man.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bravo Hyori Lee,

I love this post because it reaks truth. It has been a while since I saw any of your posts, but it seems that either you are beginning to grasp the true concept of DJism or have grasped it completely.

My hat is off to you.

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