"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What I learned from Sosuave.

I love Hyori Lee

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I'm going to keep this really simple.

There's only three things you need to be successful with women.

1. Respect yourself.
2. Respect her.
3. Be yourself.

That's all there is to it. Most AFCs didn't respect themselves. They let other people disrespect them. They let women disrespect them. They didn't know when to leave when a woman gave them disrespect. They didn't know how to handle flakes. They didn't know how to handle snotty women. They didn't know how to handle themselves when a guy disrespected them, a sign of insecurity. When you truly know how to respect yourself, a lot of your problems will disagree. Not only do respect yourself, but you must demand this self-respect.

The second is to respect her. Self-explanatory.

The third is to be yourself. Telling a chump to be himself is suicide because he'll just be a chump. But when that chump learns to have respect for himself and to have respect for that woman, he isn't a chump anymore. He has become a man.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bravo Hyori Lee,

I love this post because it reaks truth. It has been a while since I saw any of your posts, but it seems that either you are beginning to grasp the true concept of DJism or have grasped it completely.

My hat is off to you.

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