Jackreacher20144
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Gf broke up with me few weeks ago . I Nc her. Now she contact me. What I do?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Nuthin'.Jackreacher20144 said:What I do?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
if you break nc it's no longer nc is it?Jackreacher20144 said:Gf broke up with me few weeks ago . I Nc her. Now she contact me. What I do?
lame, no reason to say anything like that, she will get the hint if he ignores her.GS750 said:You can:
A) Text/call her and say something along the lines of "we're no longer together and I don't want to be in contact with you."
who cares if he looks "butthurt", what she thinks of him shouldn't matter, she already thinks poorly of him anyway, she dumped him.mikey2012 said:I beg to differ. You can just reply...I'm doing great..hope things are good with you. But only do this if you are over her. Sometimes NC can make you look butthurt still.