"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

What I do?

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

GS750

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 28, 2013
Messages
1,561
Reaction score
187
You can:

A) Text/call her and say something along the lines of "we're no longer together and I don't want to be in contact with you."
B) Ignore her and maybe she'll stop
C) Block her
 

Greasy Pig

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 22, 2009
Messages
1,675
Reaction score
102
Location
Australia
NC is NC. Don't reply.
 

mikey2012

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 2, 2012
Messages
1,130
Reaction score
276
I beg to differ. You can just reply...I'm doing great..hope things are good with you. But only do this if you are over her. Sometimes NC can make you look butthurt still.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

asa_don

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 31, 2013
Messages
531
Reaction score
126
Location
S Town
Jackreacher20144 said:
Gf broke up with me few weeks ago . I Nc her. Now she contact me. What I do?
if you break nc it's no longer nc is it?

if you really want nc stick with it, she broke up with you, no reason to answer an ex when she snaps her fingers, that shows how needy you still are.

she is an ex that broke up with you, forget about her.



GS750 said:
You can:
A) Text/call her and say something along the lines of "we're no longer together and I don't want to be in contact with you."
lame, no reason to say anything like that, she will get the hint if he ignores her.


mikey2012 said:
I beg to differ. You can just reply...I'm doing great..hope things are good with you. But only do this if you are over her. Sometimes NC can make you look butthurt still.
who cares if he looks "butthurt", what she thinks of him shouldn't matter, she already thinks poorly of him anyway, she dumped him.

silence is the best option conveying to the woman she isn't worth your time.
 
Top