Jackreacher20144
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Gf broke up with me few weeks ago . I Nc her. Now she contact me. What I do?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Nuthin'.Jackreacher20144 said:What I do?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
if you break nc it's no longer nc is it?Jackreacher20144 said:Gf broke up with me few weeks ago . I Nc her. Now she contact me. What I do?
lame, no reason to say anything like that, she will get the hint if he ignores her.GS750 said:You can:
A) Text/call her and say something along the lines of "we're no longer together and I don't want to be in contact with you."
who cares if he looks "butthurt", what she thinks of him shouldn't matter, she already thinks poorly of him anyway, she dumped him.mikey2012 said:I beg to differ. You can just reply...I'm doing great..hope things are good with you. But only do this if you are over her. Sometimes NC can make you look butthurt still.