Jackreacher20144
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Gf broke up with me few weeks ago . I Nc her. Now she contact me. What I do?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Nuthin'.Jackreacher20144 said:What I do?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
if you break nc it's no longer nc is it?Jackreacher20144 said:Gf broke up with me few weeks ago . I Nc her. Now she contact me. What I do?
lame, no reason to say anything like that, she will get the hint if he ignores her.GS750 said:You can:
A) Text/call her and say something along the lines of "we're no longer together and I don't want to be in contact with you."
who cares if he looks "butthurt", what she thinks of him shouldn't matter, she already thinks poorly of him anyway, she dumped him.mikey2012 said:I beg to differ. You can just reply...I'm doing great..hope things are good with you. But only do this if you are over her. Sometimes NC can make you look butthurt still.